Monday, 7 March 2011

Pregnant out of wedlock

Macam nak tegelak baca berita nih.

Sejak Natalie Portman glamour lepas menang Oscar, tetibe orang nak kecam dia pulak. Dikecam sebab pregnant sebelum kawin.

Yang buat aku nak tegelak, bukan ke rakyat & pemimpin negara tu tak kisah psl sex before marriage? Or boleh having sex, tapi takleh pregnant sblm kawin?

Sekarang baru nak sedar kesan sex sebelum kawin nih?

In an interview with radio host Michael Medved, the ex-politician and Fox News Host said: "One of the things that's troubling is that people see a Natalie Portman or some other Hollywood starlet who boasts of, 'Hey look, you know, we're having children, we're not married, but we're having these children,' and they're doing just fine.
"But there aren't really a lot of single moms out there who are making millions of dollars every year for being in a movie. And I think it gives a distorted image that yes, not everybody hires nannies, and caretakers, and nurses. Most single moms are very poor, uneducated, can't get a job, and if it weren't for government assistance, their kids would be starving to death and never have health care."

Islam dah lama dah kata tak boleh sex sebelum kawin. Tapi, golongan yang tak percaya ni, kebanyakkannya kata Islam ni mengongkong hak kebebasan naluri seorang manusia. Islam tu bukan mengongkong, tapi menjaga. Boleh puaskan nafsu, tapi biar kena dengan cara. Cara yang selamat, cara yang bersih, cara yang halal. Islam buat undang-undang demi kesenangan umatnya.

Kalau dah berkahwin, maknanya dah bersedia utk bekeluarga. Dah besedia mental fizikal. Dah besedia pikul tanggungjawab. Dah ada plan kewangan dan sbgainya. Jadi, kalau pregnant pun, takpe la. Dah mmg dalam plan. Anak-anak pun tak terabai.

Tapi, yang pregnant luar nikah tu, nak suruh lelaki tu betanggungjwb pun susah, sebab tak bersedia. Sudahnye, siapa yang susah? Siapa yang malu? Mereka dan keluarga mereka (mcm penah kudgr, tp dimana ya?).

Atas contoh yang mudah ni harapnye ramai la yang sedar, Islam is the way of life.

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